Kalem Guys! These Tips Make You Control Emotions in Esport Match!
In a game, feelings affect us and the game, especially if the game is in the form of competition. Our expectation and competence in the game allows us to experience feelings, not to mention anger!
Is that angry? Anger is a normal reaction when you experience something that is not appropriate or unpleasant. For example when you receive criticism, feel frustrated, and when faced with threats.
The form of anger is also very diverse, from the lightest such as dislike, irritability, and not satisfied with something!
While the other form of anger is grudge, desire to destroy either yourself or others, and cranky (stop doing what you should do).
Anger in a game is perfectly normal, sure everyone gets frustrated when an expectation does not work properly. However, do not overdo it later even make your team more chaotic!
When we get upset and expressed in an unfavorable way, we are risking our psychological condition and others, which will certainly affect our original goal of winning! Well you know !?
When we are angry, often just uncontrollable feelings are conveyed to others, even the content of your anger can not even catch them properly.
At this point, anger is in control of you, not you who controls anger, and this is not a good thing, guys!
Controlling anger is important! When anger is imbedded incorrectly, it may be that your expectations of your game target and team unity will be chaotic.
Begin to be aware of the problems that are within you, and start planning to change. It can improve the way you play, mentality, and even your life as a whole!
Let's see tips for controlling anger inside you!
Remember, Everyone Can Do Wrong!
This is important if we are all human, and doing wrong is something normal. You can not say someone is playing badly, maybe he is capable of playing better in other aspects.
For example, people you do not like in games play very badly when using support. Well, it could be when he plays as a midlaner, his performance can increase dramatically! Whose fault is he not given lane mid?
Play to Have Fun
Remind yourself that you play for fun. Even if you've tried your best in a difficult game, then try playing with a good mood.
Tips, after having a bad game try to take a break, do the things you like. Whether it's chatting with friends, or even seeing a humor website that can make your mood back again!
Be Positive! Because There Are Still Hundreds of Matches Waiting
There are some things you need to remember when losing a game, you still have hundreds of matches to play. Imagine you will play for the next year!
There may be feelings of discomfort when you experience defeat, but there is a positive, that you have a chance to recognize deeper the error in yourself, to improve, and make you better.
Remember! In addition to victory, the development of your character as a player must also increase!
Reliable players have gone through many situations that make their character and endurance also make it worth winning. Want to be a player who also has a winning mentality?
Look at replays of your last game, and start learning to fix small mistakes. Do not hesitate to make a deal with your team to evaluate each other with sportsmanship and full of openness!
Recognizing You Are Not The Best
Starting to realize you are not the best at the moment is your chance to be more open to other challenges that lead to something good.
Take control of your feelings and emotions, let you manage your response instead of the chaotic feeling that governs your response!
Angry is normal, but being angry with no repair content that helps to achieve your goals, is very ineffective.
Finding a mistake in a game is more important than winning or losing a game. If it can be like this, then you have made steps to improve the way you play.
Furthermore, if you do not make a mistake again, it is an improvement for you, and you will get win rate, K / D ratio, and higher rank again.
Start Asking What and How
In John G. Miller's The Question Behind the Question, start asking "what"or "how", using the word "I", and specify the focus of your action.
When you stop blaming others for a situation you face, you can find yourself more energy and start thinking to accomplish a goal.
Example:
Before: "Here people are playing ugly, mouth toxic anyway!"
After: "How can I not be affected by this person's chat and start focusing on the game myself?"
Second example:
Before: "Bypass, keep post site B dead solely!"
After: "How can I kill a lot and have a better aim so I can clutch one day?"
Have you answered within yourself? If so, it means you've managed to improve yourself for the better, congratulations!
Relax!
And the last? Relax for 15-30 minutes!
It's not good when you feed into your bad side and let your bad side grow, while you do not plant the good side as much as your bad side.
If it's too salty, you better stop what you're doing, and relax for a moment. Let your bad side subside, while thinking of positive things!
A few tips to control anger and once again survived, you have opened yourself to be better not only in the world of gaming and competition, but also your life!
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